Dear all,
I just wanna share about what happen in me and maybe it sounds unusual, but I let you know and I will explain about what happen with me.
January 7th 2008…
We (Jamin and I) went to the Court House and got Marriage License, finally we got married. After the really short time, we decided to give our life each other.
I’m sure a lot of people have a big question mark. Why they get married soon? Why is so soon? Why they really fast to take decision? Are they really married or just play? Are they sure meant each other? Bla bla bla..
First of all,I will tell about how Jamin and I met. I’m working at Asia Section, Disney’s Animal Kingdom as a Cultural Representative. My husband works for custodial / park keeper at DAK also. We met around July, but everything was nothing. We just see each other almost everyday; finally we were dating for couple months… We had a really really hard time in our relationship. He had beliefs that absolutely different than me (I am Christian), we used to fight and had a bad time. Once we touch about spirituality, we will fight all day long, no end of discussion. We used to fight until I got sick, and I didn’t go to work on that day. Every Sunday, we always argue, because I came from church and he came from his church…I almost give up, I prayed to God that if he is really my husband wanna be or my Mr.Right, just change him, if not please make him hates me or make something happen to us. I didn’t ask him to change his belief, I just flow and I was fasting and pray to God that please give me the way and touch him if that’s His way. November 14th, when I went to his apartment, he said,” I think Jesus is a God. Jesus shows Himself for me today”. Then he explained about dream that he had, it was old man talk about religion with him. He kind of “challenges” God and asks God to shows Himself. And God did it, right after he asked that. After he went out from the bus, he saw the big words on the clouds (JESUS LOVES YOU) by plane and a lot of things happened with him and his spiritual side.
Since that day, he changes his mind and turn 180 degrees, our relationship being better and we always have a good time. He cares of me; he loves me more than ussual. One day, his family came here as vacation on Thanksgiving. We had vacation together, it was fun and nice.. November 26th, 2007. He brought me to the pier at Clearwater Beach . It was almost 7 oclock, I didn’t expect that he was hold my hand and asked me to be his wife. I was thinking about what God gave to me, the answer and the signs, I said “I do…” And I think I can get along with his family 
Time flies… we always together and no worry about our relationship, because we already in one belief, our love grows stronger than before.
After we are engaged, people start to “give” some advice. They said, “Hey, are you sure with him?” “You still young, he still young” “he doesn’t have a good job, you are not sure with your job” ”everything still pink” “he is not ready I think” “He is just a custodial” etc. The strange thing is people who “underestimate” us are from my side, and the otherside (Jamin’ side) his co-workers, his managers, his family and my family and a couple of my friends support us. I really upset, because when I decide to get married with him, they use to give me an advice. I know they are concern with me, they care with me; but if one thing, one advice they repeat more than one time, almost everytime we meet, they always say that. Honestly it makes me sick and trauma because everytime I say that, people will say that. I really afraid to tell people what will happen with us, what our plan, because people will say that 
Before we married, we talked with my parents (a couple times). The first thing that my mom ask me was, “is he rude / not?” because we really afraid that he will abuse me or things like that… (more…)
